Venu's Proverbs or Venverbs

If you want something, you have to pay for it.
[pay for it = suffer - as in, you will pay for your sins.]

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All pain can be a fulcrum upon which you can find your balance.

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Beggars can't be choosers - but choosers are beggars.
[This Venverb needs explanation. The first half is well known and accepted. By the other half I mean that those who chose are not the ones who accept whatever may come their way but the ones who have been conditioned by the like-dislike dichotomy. Therefore such a person is not free - except for the free, all are beggars. ]